7 Reasons To Love Someone With Depression

Is there anyone in your life, who you think may be struggling with depression, or perhaps that person is you.

 If so you’ve likely seen how it complicates daily life, and how it not only affects the depressed but also everyone around them. It’s emotionally painful to see someone you love in so much pain, but you’re not sure how to help them.

 Relationships aren’t easy, so loving someone with a mental health diagnosis can be even more of a challenge, they tend to talk themselves down, and wallow in their feelings of self-hatred and hopelessness, convinced that they’re undeserving of love.

Depression builds walls around people, letting a lot of emotional distance between you and your loved one, yet you continue to reach out and support them, you do it because you’re connected to them, and you love them.

After all one of the most beautiful and powerful things in life is true human connection, nurturing it can help you find happiness even in the darkest of times, and it will help you restore what depression has taken away.

seven reasons to love someone with depression:

1: they’re stronger than most

When was the last time you were in any sort of heated conflict, physical or verbal, now imagine that energy expenditure, but inside your head and it never ends.

 Fighting depression is a constant battle, with your own mind, with the weapons of loneliness, emptiness, and hopelessness.

Being used against the sufferer you can imagine, that whoever has fought against depression, is likely one of the strongest most resilient individuals you know, sometimes they don’t win, and the amount of courage and determination required to get back up is tremendous.

2: their depression does not define them

Of utmost importance, you are loving a person, not a diagnosis, although this person has a mental illness, this does not define who they are, and does not indicate a foregone conclusion.

Some of the greatest individuals in history, such as Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, and Georgia O’Keeffe struggled with depression for much of their lives, despite this, they rose above it all and made their lives mean something more.

3:  they’re more understanding

People who have depression become more understanding and empathetic to the suffering of others.

They know how it feels like to be shunned and ignored by others due to the stigma behind mental illness, because of this they tend to be more open-minded and non-judgmental.

It’s easy to let yourself be emotionally vulnerable with them because they can easily empathize with whatever it is, you may be feeling, and they’ll likely understand your point of view better than others.

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4:  they’re more honest

Depression has the tendency to make those who suffer from it more brutally honest.

just as they understand what it’s like to be shunned, they also understand what it’s like to have their time wasted and feelings hurt by fake niceties and false promises.

 You can always trust them to tell you the truth, no matter how ugly or painful it may be, they don’t usually have any ulterior motives behind their words or their actions. because they put a lot of value in a person’s sincerity and straightforwardness.

5: they’re quite appreciative

We know you might think, that wall doesn’t seem like they care about anything I do for them. yeah, there is a wall however those with depression don’t really want to be left all alone.

They value and are grateful for those who stay by their side, making that effort to connect and reach out, but they don’t want to burden you by seeming like they need it too much.

They’re very appreciative; they’re just trying not to be creepy about it.

6: they’re good listeners

Someone who’s depressed tends to feel lonely and misunderstood.

So they go out of their way to ensure that their loved ones don’t feel that way, they want you to know that you are heard and accepted.

They know how amazing it can feel to have someone get you so they’re eager, to return any empathy and support others have shown them, and anyway they can usually by listening.

 7: they’re deep thinkers

Many recent studies have observed a link between over thinking and depressed. there are quite a few upsides to being a deep thinker, such as being perceptive intuitive and insightful about life.

I’m sure you’ve heard the contemplation what is the meaning of life, that mindset is very much what the depressed person contemplates, as finding meaning gives them hope and purpose.

To give a simple analogy, a flower blooms the most beautiful and vibrant when given proper support and care.

People are the same way those with mental illnesses are still people, although it can feel like an uphill battle much of the time encouragement understanding and simply being there to help them through the suffering goes a long way to helping that flower bloom.